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are many bipolars obsessive-compulsive
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Harry
2006-06-25 21:01:30 UTC
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the OCD,not the personality disorder o-c?Is obsession a bad thing?some
of the time.not all of the time.the struggles,the repitition might be
beneficial occasionally(I have seen "Z" and "Frances" many many
times).but add to a mood disorder ADHD and obsessive compulsive
disorder,maybe even a personality disorder.Life could get difficult at
best,at least tiring.
"They fine you every time you slam the door"-B. Dylan


Harry
Maggie
2006-06-26 11:11:23 UTC
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"They fine you every time you slam the door"-B. Dylan
You had it easier than you realized, harry. I've I'd fined you every
time you'd slammed the door I'd have a house in South Dublin by now.

But......hanging up on someone you say you love....twice in one night.
Well, that's a deal breaker.

Move along and be happy you got out when you did.

Maggie
Maggie
2006-06-27 20:33:40 UTC
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Post by Harry
"They fine you every time you slam the door"-B. Dylan
BTW: for those not all that familiar with the vast catalog of Bob
Dylan's work, The first line of this song is "I ain't gonna work on
Maggie's farm no more" followed by a long list of home Maggie
mistreats him.

Let it go, harry. You wanted out and you are out. that's it.

Bipolars in love? harder tha it looks.

Maggie
Harry
2006-06-28 00:27:14 UTC
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Post by Harry
"They fine you every time you slam the door"-B. Dylan
BTW: for those not all that familiar with the vast catalog of Bob
Dylan's work, The first line of this song is "I ain't gonna work on
Maggie's farm no more" followed by a long list of home Maggie
mistreats him.
Let it go, harry. You wanted out and you are out. that's it.
Bipolars in love? harder tha it looks.
Maggie
We are out,it seems clear here.I will remain fond of you (really)& I
will write nothing critical of you here or elsewhere.& you weren't bad
like D's Maggie.I enjoyed our times more than you know.Bipolars in
love?how did it go not wrong but hurtful-like (was it?)Hemingway or
Fitzgerald said - "gradually.....then suddenly".They spoke of
bankruptcy-& you and I are not in any way bankrupt.You were correct
about my harshness & I regret it but couldn't tell you until
now.affectionately-& missing you Harry
Maggie
2006-06-28 07:52:55 UTC
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Post by Harry
"They fine you every time you slam the door"-B. Dylan
BTW: for those not all that familiar with the vast catalog of Bob
Dylan's work, The first line of this song is "I ain't gonna work on
Maggie's farm no more" followed by a long list of home Maggie
mistreats him.
Let it go, harry. You wanted out and you are out. that's it.
Bipolars in love? harder tha it looks.
Maggie
We are out,it seems clear here.I will remain fond of you (really)
I don't think you know the meaning of the word. You connsidered it
worthless everytime i ever used.....that got to me.

& I
Post by Harry
will write nothing critical of you here or elsewhere.&
Don't play innocent, harry. How many sly references have you made
recentlly about narcisism, manipulation, etc......knowing that i knw
you're referencing things you've called me in private.

even your lovely star mentions seem calculated to get a reaction from
me.

And no....i wasn't bad, in fact i was always exceptionally kind to
you.

After having you push me, pull me.....repeatedly dump me......how many
times.

And we both know what reallly eneded. Don't kid yourself and be sure
that you haven't fooled me.

Leave me aloneand never contact me again.

i'm really beginning to hate you, harry.

M



you weren't bad
Post by Harry
like D's Maggie.I enjoyed our times more than you know.Bipolars in
love?how did it go not wrong but hurtful-like (was it?)Hemingway or
Fitzgerald said - "gradually.....then suddenly".They spoke of
bankruptcy-& you and I are not in any way bankrupt.You were correct
about my harshness & I regret it but couldn't tell you until
now.affectionately-& missing you Harry
Harry
2006-06-28 16:49:54 UTC
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Post by Harry
"They fine you every time you slam the door"-B. Dylan
BTW: for those not all that familiar with the vast catalog of Bob
Dylan's work, The first line of this song is "I ain't gonna work on
Maggie's farm no more" followed by a long list of home Maggie
mistreats him.
Let it go, harry. You wanted out and you are out. that's it.
Bipolars in love? harder tha it looks.
Maggie
We are out,it seems clear here.I will remain fond of you (really)
I don't think you know the meaning of the word. You connsidered it
worthless everytime i ever used.....that got to me.
& I
Post by Harry
will write nothing critical of you here or elsewhere.&
Don't play innocent, harry. How many sly references have you made
recentlly about narcisism, manipulation, etc......knowing that i knw
you're referencing things you've called me in private.
even your lovely star mentions seem calculated to get a reaction from
me.
And no....i wasn't bad, in fact i was always exceptionally kind to
you.
After having you push me, pull me.....repeatedly dump me......how many
times.
And we both know what reallly eneded. Don't kid yourself and be sure
that you haven't fooled me.
Leave me aloneand never contact me again.
i'm really beginning to hate you, harry.
M
you weren't bad
Post by Harry
like D's Maggie.I enjoyed our times more than you know.Bipolars in
love?how did it go not wrong but hurtful-like (was it?)Hemingway or
Fitzgerald said - "gradually.....then suddenly".They spoke of
bankruptcy-& you and I are not in any way bankrupt.You were correct
about my harshness & I regret it but couldn't tell you until
now.affectionately-& missing you Harry
neither of us is completely innocent.No goody-goody,I pleaded guilty to
those offenses you mentioned (& yes,there were more).Never did I try to
fool you. I won't play this out here on the newsgroup anymore,not
again,not once more.You were mean a number of times.I regret that you
chose to display such angry remarks on this group.We should let it
rest,& I feel sad that you hate me merely for my mistakes for which I
have apologized-& I meant it.I did not & would not have had an dialogue
with you if you hadn't attacked me on a newsgroup in which I have long
been a participant.I did not contact you.I replied.We must have
somewhat enjoyed our interaction until the last weeks.You know
that.Even with our fierce arguments we kept coming back.With some
people there is,as Chrisie Hynnde sang "a thin line between love &
hate."If you prefer to hate,it's your choice".I don't & won't hate
you.goodbye.& good luck.(look,this may be my longest post.)I won't
contact you in any way,phone,e-mail or at the groups.Anything I say on
a ng will not be about you.Goodbye Harry

"Enough! or too much!"- W.Blake-( from "The Marriage of Heaven & Hell")
Maggie
2006-06-29 10:06:00 UTC
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Post by Harry
"Enough! or too much!"- W.Blake-( from "The Marriage of Heaven & Hell")
Look harry, there is a benifit to hating you. It's usually around this
time in our legendary breakup that one of us contacts the
other,,,,,,and that's just what I think you did with the quote from
Maggie's Farm.

Reading your post just after midnight last night threw me into the
worst suicidal ideation i've had in a long time, and the physical
tention in my head, back and jaw lasted for hours.

So.....let's stay the course on this one to the degree that we can.
the stakes are too high for both of us and as always, i don't want
either of us to get hurt. with us, the good parts are too good but the
bad parts get dangerous......obviously so.

Take care

M

Maggie
2006-06-26 13:10:12 UTC
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Post by Harry
"They fine you every time you slam the door"-B. Dylan
Baby, there's no use playing if you're winning in a losing game.

Trouble in paradise....JDS
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